I need a suggestion to understand what I should do in the following situations: I learned that my husband was talking to girls and this is not the first time. When I heard about it for the first time, I was terrified and wanted to leave. We had a conversation with him and he assured me that it would never happen again. I trusted him because I loved him so much.
We have a son, I can not live without. My husband went to Moscow to earn some money when his son was three months old and I think he cheated on me. I doubt his contact with the girls in Moscow. When he arrived from Moscow, I felt isolation and apathy in our relationships. I can not think of the best way in this situation.
From a religious point of view:
Presumably, it is no longer a secret that Islam strictly forbids men and women, unless they are close to each other or that marriage between them is prohibited by sharia law. Muslim men and women who are not married are not allowed to chat according to the rules of Muslim marriage. They do not exactly consider what type of communication they practice, whether through meetings, phones or the Internet, this communication is prohibited when distorted thoughts are present.
Shari'a is prohibited from accusing a person of conjugal sex without unproven evidence. Complaints without proof (SMS, etc., are not accepted as evidence) are considered a serious sin and may even be punishable by three beatings.
Talk to him again. Try to tell him your great love. Tell him that his behavior hurt your heart and that this national communication is a sin. Try to influence him, if necessary, through his parents or others he respects.
Unfortunately, you did not mention the details of your wedding. How did you get married, how you always felt affection for each other ... I may be wrong, but your letter gives the impression that your wedding is a marriage, no love but of convenience. He is probably not satisfied with any part of your relationship. Try to find out what's really going on. Another possibility: you can register on social networks, chat with her and see exactly what she is attracted to other girls.
Muhammad Amin Magomedrasulav, graduate of the Islamic University of Northern Dagestan